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You’re Overthinking It: Find Lifelong Love By Being Your True Self
by Sabrina Alexis Bendory

You’re Overthinking It: How to Find Lifelong Love by Being Your True Self is the ultimate guide to understanding relationships and learning the necessary skills to find and keep a happy, loving, and mutually fulfilling relationship.

Do you wonder why it’s so hard for you to have the life and love you want? Do you feel powerless in your relationships, like you’re at the mercy of someone else, feeling like you’re chasing a relationship instead of choosing it? Do you get caught in an endless, obsessive, analytical loop trying to understand why nothing works out? Do you find yourself dating the same copy-paste versions of people over and over? Do you know what it takes to have true, lasting love? Do you know the red flags to watch out for and how to be the kind of person that easily and effortlessly gets what they want in life? Do you understand why things haven’t quite worked out the way you wanted them to?

Acclaimed relationship expert Sabrina Alexis Bendory answers all of these questions and more, sharing everything you need to know to find and keep love that lasts.

Why You'll Love It

  • Written by relationship expert Sabrina Alexis Bendory
  • Speaks directly to the overthinker caught in an analytical loop
  • Covers the red flags to watch for as well as what lasting love takes
  • Focused on being your true self rather than chasing a relationship

Product Details

  • Author: Sabrina Alexis Bendory
  • Publisher: Thought Catalog Books
  • Format: Paperback
  • ISBN: 978-1-949759-65-5

How to Read and Gift It

  • Keep it on the bedside table and read a little at a time
  • Read it with a pen nearby and a journal such as the Inner Mastery Journal by Rania Gebagi for your own notes
  • Give it to a friend who is newly single, back in the dating world or simply prone to overthinking, perhaps for a birthday or as a just-because gift
  • Find more titles from the same publisher in our Thought Catalog collection

For more reading in this vein, see our wellbeing and personal growth books.

FAQs

Who wrote You’re Overthinking It?
Relationship expert Sabrina Alexis Bendory.

What is the book about?
It is a guide to understanding relationships and learning the skills to find and keep a happy, loving and mutually fulfilling relationship.

Who is it for?
Anyone who feels stuck in the same dating patterns, or who tends to over-analyse why things have not worked out.

In Short

You’re Overthinking It: Find Lifelong Love By Being Your True Self is a paperback relationship guide by Sabrina Alexis Bendory, published by Thought Catalog. It covers understanding relationships, spotting red flags and finding love that lasts.

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